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Susan Stubbings
Doncaster - South Yorkshire
Therapeutic Counsellor & Counselling Supervision
Creating Connections & Peace of Mind - Compassionate & Caring Support for ALL
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ONCE
Once I was a Human Being
Death waits for no one
Now I am free
I am a butterfly
Loose from
My cocoon
I am a bird
Flying high in the sky
As you fill the dawn
With dis-ease
Think again
Of me
Once I was a Human Being
Now I am the clouds
Floating across the sky
I am the wind
The light
The stars
Can you not see
I am free?
Flying above the ocean
Soaring high
Catching the current of the
Gentle breeze
Once I was a Human Being
Knowing all, I needed
To know, walking the earth
Now I flow
Like a river
Calm
Do not weep for me
Can you not see
I am free?
I am free
Of my pain
My grief
Count the ways
You love me
Have me
in your heart
As you live, live on
For the both of us .......
You are a Human Being
Live on
One day we will
Be reunited
Then we can reminisce
Together
Forever ...........
SJS July 2016

A Parents lament
This emotional maelstrom
They call grief, for the loss of our
precious beloved, we love so deep.
Stolen, why? Why us? Why me?
There are no words, to describe
this insoluble, unsolvable,
crime of life, it’s out of order,
The silent scream strangulates
in the darkness of this living
We are, I am, numbed, squashed,
into a non-verbal mishmosh.
In beats and veins and breath,
I just am, and we are
All that humans are given
This Silent explosion, no parent should
be made to hold. The apple of our eye,
of this requisite, no choice was made
This dull roaring ache, fills every cell and
bone, our hearts in two, perforated, open wide, and here
here we sit heartbroken, raw, yet
driven forward, because of precious nobility
Sitting here in the garden of living
Contemplating, what’s the point?
Dawns intuitively a retort
It’s woeful, heavy painful repeat
We live on to bear witness too, who was
and still is. Shhh, don’t say a word
Nothing can fill this empty void
hold my hand, let me cry,
for the desecration of our lives
We are proud parents forever and beyond
Graciously remembering all of
Loving caring ways, times made us
laugh and cry, the way
they blossomed and grew
and the endless sunshine that is you
Until we meet again, we hold you tight in
our hearts., in our minds, because
our love for you will never die.
ODES & POETRY
Written by
Susan Stubbings

Peace will come
When reflecting over the worn time
And the new seems to be
A very distant shore … unreachable
When life seems one long struggle
Bathing in the deep
Pain searing at your feet
Waiting to engulf you it may seem
Ticking like a wobbling clock
Words torn, forlorn …... word no more
When your world seems all
Defective
When life’s cycle is all about
Missing ……
Your beloved, them, you, me,
myself, I and living seems like
A hard bristled brush
Made of steel, made of stone
Shooing you along
The currents of your breath
Sweeping you aside
Feelings all-encompassing
Others cannot see
Understand
Breathe .......... Inhale deep
Times gone by … Time waits
For no man, woman or child
The crow flies
Here you are today
Reflecting on what was
Recall memories
The harmony and the discord
In equal measure
You may weep
All seen hanging in the balance
Write their names within your heart
Write them bold, write them clear
They are forever near secure
In your very essence they live on ….
So live for them today, tomorrow
and beyond. Wipe your tears
On the handkerchief of a new dawn
Your heart whispers how great
thou art for enduring
For holding on
For Being
Its been no simple feat
Hear the sounds of your own beat …
You may be weary, tired, depleted
As echoes thunder
Look for your sunshine
Within the rain
Swift Be
Embrace your inner divine
These are, were and will be again
The days of your life
Embrace wholeheartedly your living
Remember
The Pendulum Of Perpetually
Is in motion for your choosing
Take hold and
Abide with me
We shall ride this eventide
As the old year draws to a close
Celebrate your strength
Celebrate your courage
Celebrate your fortitude
Celebrate YOU
CELEBRATE ………
Peace O Pending
Peace is near
Peace will come
Peace will come



This circle of Love
We sit in this circle
To continue making some sense
Of our sorrow and heartache
That will never be spent
This grief that none of us
Would wish upon another
To meet ....
Dare I even whisper?
What we all know
A circle of life complete
The shock and the pain
Causes me to be inside myself
Lost a part of me that contained
My precious you
Yet the bond we have with our
Precious ones forever to hold
Is Love ...
With love we can go forward
So the Spirit and essence of our Child
Lives on in us and through us
So as we sit in this circle
Let each of us re-member
Our precious Child
Time past becomes times present
To times future
Because the circle of love
Never dies....


I Miss You
I miss you like
The breath of life
This searing pain
Hath no respite
I go on not for me
But for all
That was you, me, us
I miss you like
The breath of life
This searing pain
Hath no respite
Yet this empty void,
exhales love, in this breeze
this Inclement breath
I miss you like
The breath of life
I feel your arms
Squeezing tight
The essence of you
Abounds and all feels
OK for a little while
I miss you
